Zac Attack: Taking the plunge

I’m getting married at the end of this month, and I think my life will remain intact.

People say it is a huge leap and a drastic change. I should know. For the past year, people I know, and even some who I don’t know, have not been shy to share their feelings about my impending marriage. Some are supportive, others are not so supportive.

However, most comments are harmless jokes about who has possession of my testicles – me or her. Those comments I can live with. It’s when people say “I would be glad to attend your first wedding,” implying that there will be a second, that gets...